diffidence:

I don’t believe that you can be in love with more than one person at a time. Not that you can’t love multiple people, you just can’t be in love with more than one person. It doesn’t make sense to me. It seems like people who say that they’re in love with two people at once are just trying to justify it to themselves. It really annoys me.

I gotta disagree on this one.  Maybe its just a you-cant-understand-until-it-happens sort of thing?

If nothing else, I know some folks who have been in long term poly relationships, and I imagine all three of them really are in love with the other two.

Source: ourunlightedhearts